This message is directed towards our fellow believers and all those who bear the title of “Born Again Christian.” Not that that’s the only people I want to read this but that’s the audience I’m targeting right now. Just to let you know exactly who I’m talking to.
In past posts I’ve written about how being different is how we will make a difference. How examining our life and looking at evidence in our life that would point to living out what we believe is vital. No believer I think would disagree with that. I think that we all want to do better. Pray more. Read our bible more. Know god more. These are things that we desire as followers of Christ. But that’s about where it stops. What I mean by that is that’s all we say. We don’t get specific.
Something that really convicted me a long time ago is what I’ll call horizontal affirmation. We go to church or youth group or the community of friends that were with and we see what they’re doing. How often they pray. Read their bible. What they feel like is ok to watch and listen to. And we begin to gauge our spirituality by those around us. This is a huge problem. We should never gauge our lives by those around us in this way. We need to seek upward affirmation. Saying what does the scripture say about this? Is this something that is hindering my growth? Is this something that is beneficial? The bible says to abhor evil and cling to what is good. (Rom 12:9) We won’t get there by setting our sights by those living around us. We need to look to Christ to gauge ourselves. Just because our friends at youth group are dating and having sex doesn’t mean that it’s ok. Just because our friends in community say that it’s ok to be gay doesn’t mean that it’s what the bible says. And the list goes on.
Now what I’ve said so far is pretty basic, look to Jesus and the bible and don’t conform to those around you. Let’s talk a minute about a pretty common verse to the Christian world. Romans 12:2 “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”This seems pretty self explanatory at first but think about it. What does this look like? We understand that we are changed or transformed. We become new. But what does the renewing of our mind look like? We can’t just skip the new mind. We need to think differently. We need to become practically different. But I know so many people that just like to skip renewing their mind and add reading the bible praying and going to church to their to do list. But we still seek the same garbage and embrace the same lie that the world offers right along with it. We try to go to church and praise him on Sunday and then we go out to a raunchy movie right afterwards. Or get in the car after service and put on some obscene music that dishonors God and we continue to feed this into our lives.
Again, I haven’t really said anything profound. Honor God. Don’t listen to bad music. Be transformed. Be different. But yet again, this is the message I hear from people all the time. But what I realize is that no one wants to get specific as to what that really means. And this is where I’m probably about to piss some people off. There are some pretty clear things in this world that we frequently indulge in, support, and enjoy that have no place in our lives. And we excuse it for whatever reason we choose. It’s what people at church are watching. It’s what I like. There isn’t any good Christian music out there. And my all time favorite, it’s not my conviction. It’s not my conviction is probably, in my opinion, the thing that bothers me the most about this culture that we live in. Oh wow, you listen to that band? Don’t they swear a lot and talk about sex? Ya they do. But music isn’t my conviction. It doesn’t cause me to stumble….what? This is what we have come to as a culture? That claims to be different? What this really means is, ya but I really like the music and I don’t actually care that it’s bad and I’m so numb to it now that I feel no conviction whatsoever. Now this can be used in a way that doesn’t sound ridiculous. For example. Christians can drink occasionally. Yes. It’s ok. I’m more than positive that Jesus drank occasionally. Some people have the conviction to give up alcohol for various reasons and for others it isn’t a conviction that they have that they need to give it up. That’s fine. But to say ya that’s not my conviction as an excuse to do something is dishonors God is just being morally lazy.
Here’s the part where people are going to get pissed. I’m about to get specific.
Scrubs: I thought I would throw myself out there first off. Scrubs is a show that I relate to really well because of the relationship that Turk and JD share and it really makes me laugh and is hilarious. It’s also one of the most sexual and crass and explicit shows that used to air on television. It was raunchy and has no more place in my life because of it.
Friends: A show that has had millions of viewers and fans from the first season that it aired. Its sexual content and relationship and casual sex, and course joking and messages of worldly living and joking has no place in our Christian walk.
Kesha, Black eyed peas, katie perry, modonna, Blink 182, green day, mettallica, ACDC: what we listen to effects us greatly. Most of this music just wants to talk about parties and sex and alcohol and the indulging of every sin that Jesus Christ died to save us from. This has no place in our Christian walk and if it’s something that you listen to regularly you probably shouldn’t. And by probably what I mean is, it is god hating indulgence of the flesh. So don’t.
It’s Always Sunny In Philadelphia: Incredibly crass and sexual joke that makes light of issues such as abortion, Gays, and many other things that pollutes our minds for the sake of entertainment.
Nip-Tuck: some of these I feel like I don’t even need to put up here. This show can barely go an episode without having some sort of explicit sex scene, foul language, and adulterous scenarios of obscenity and evil for the sake of being entertained.
Twilight: A story about lust. With the back story being about vampires and the living dead, it’s a story purely about lust, and embracing evil in a way that is idolizing lovers and many other underlying messages that go against scripture.
This list could go on and on and on but really just take a look at what we are letting into our lives. And why? For entertainment. When we (I’m including myself in this we) indulge in such things, what we are literally telling The Savior that bled out on the cross for us is I don’t want to commit that much. We walk onto that hill where he is hanging look up to him and say, you aren’t worth cleaning out my iPod. But I’ll come to church on Sunday. Saying there isn’t good Christian music is just saying that being pure isn’t worth it. We don’t have the self discipline to filter what we let into our lives for entertainment, how is God going to trust us with bigger things that he desires to have us be a part of?
I once heard a pastor say that he refused to be entertained by that which Christ suffered and died to free us from. Something to think about.
For His Glory
Frank Shortly Raden